Would she want you to attend church with her. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part. Intimacy is pretty much gone. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. That means that we are always changing and growing. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research.
We strive to improve each other. It won't be easy. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. It is soooo hard. I want so much to be supportive, but since my family is gone, I find myself afraid that I will come off as needy if I ask for attention or more affection. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. If you do, that's okay.
There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. That being said, no matter what the cause, I wasn't getting what I needed out of it and I had to make the decision to either keep things the status quo or move on. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. People should marry for love, not money.
You have given me the courage to continue to protect my marriage and children. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it. But, I am a 3rd year medical student and my fiance is a 2nd year medical student.
Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. During those years, I think we had about 5 dinner dates.